Your wedding is meant to be the most memorable day of your life. Unless you get too sh*tfaced.
That was the case for one groom who had gotten so drunk, he passed out at the bridal suite during his wedding night.
His wife wasn’t too pleased though.
Writing on Mumsnet, the former bride wrote about her ‘selfish’ groom who continued to drink with his mates on the special day and forgot about her.
Too drunk to be able to locate their hotel room, the groom wasn’t much help when it came to helping the bride change either.
The kicker came when she asked him to remove the complicated dress and he looked at her ‘with disgust’.
She wrote online that it’s been six weeks since the wedding and she’s still struggling to forgive him.
The poster admitted that her partner can ‘get carried’ away when it comes to drinking but reminded him not to overdo it.
‘I didn’t see him much until it was time to leave and I then realised he’d clearly continued drinking,’ she explained.
‘The taxi nearly refused to take him and he had to stick his head out the window for the whole journey.
While most couples enjoy the first night as man and wife together, she was sad to reveal that her partner was barely there.
‘I had to struggle with millions of buttons on my dress while he passed out on the bed,
‘What was worse was the way he looked at me when I said I needed him to help, realistically I know it was the effort of the dress that he was thinking of but the look of disgust on his face at helping me won’t leave my mind.’
‘I was really looking forward to us having a drink in the room and talking about our day especially as we hadn’t seen each other much apart from photos.’
She added that she knows she can’t go back and change anything now but is unhappy that her wedding day has sour memories.
‘I spent my wedding night in tears on the sofa in our hotel room. I’m struggling with this being the final memories of our wedding day.
‘The only thing that mattered to me was us spending the day together and I feel that for him the most important thing was getting drunk with his friends.’
Other Mumsnet users could see where the poster was coming from, saying that he went ‘over the top’.
‘Don’t enable this behaviour from him ever again,’ wrote one person.
‘If he’s so drunk he needs to be dealt with like a toddler, walk away. Set your level of acceptance and stick to it for the sake of your sanity.’
Others said it was harmless and the groom was just enjoying the most expensive party he’ll ever throw.
What do you think?
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